Thoughts
for Peace
"Path to Peace -- Love
and Understanding"
The
Buddhist respect for other beliefs has always deeply impressed me. The
Buddhist path is more of a way of life than a blind faith in doctrine.
Buddhists believe meditation or prayer without action is spiritually empty.
The
gentleness of Buddhism is also a comfort to me as I look around the world
and see the arrogance of religious fanatics, who preach subservience rather
than love and compassion. Religion, or certainly a distorted version of
it, has become a frightening tool for many tyrants to torture, silence
and control people.
True
spirituality is about lifting people from suffering, not beating them
down. It is also looking at the world in the most loving terms and even
accepting that sadness and tragedy can awaken some of our finest qualities
as human beings.
How
can we possibly understand the suffering of others if we just glide through
life and never experience struggle ourselves?
If we
embrace the humanity of others, we truly begin to understand our place
in the vast global community. Martin Luther King Jr. once said if we think
of the world as a house we share, then we will do all we can to keep our
home a peaceful, safe and welcoming place.
Some
of our most inspiring spiritual leaders live by this remarkable credo.
The
Dalai Lama immediately comes to mind. Even though India's spiritual leader
was driven from his homeland by the Chinese -- he used his persecution
to lift the hearts of the world.
Exiled
from his own homeland, the Dalai Lama could have easily looked upon his
suffering as an excuse to hate, seek revenge and stew in bitterness. Instead,
he welcomed his persecution as a "defining moment" -- his spiritual
challenge to light the way for world peace. And it also became his opportunity
to leave his sheltered life in Tibet, and instead, make friends with the
people of the world.
The
Dalai Lama lost his homeland, but he took this opportunity to inspire
the Western world with his peaceful, loving ways. During a time in our
history when the ferocious pace of technology has made us feel estranged
from our spiritual natures, leaders like the Dalai Lama remind us to listen
to our hearts and accept our challenge to make peace, not war.
So much
of what we do as Westerners is not about contemplation, but our quick,
knee-jerk reactions, to uncomfortable situations. We have forgotten how
to listen to one another because it is easier to talk over our "enemy"
than really listen. If we stopped and processed, we might actually have
to understand the other side.
We Westerners
barely know our next-door-neighbors. Sometimes we listen to more TV than
our own children. We live in a strange isolation in which we start to
believe we are the only members of this global village. How are we expected
to understand others if we don't even know our own children, our own spouses,
our own neighbors?
Is it
possible that our compassion has been buried in the coldness of our technologically-isolated
times? Often we become isolated and arrogant; we don't see the true possibilities
for peace. How can we possibly cultivate an atmosphere of mutual respect
if we are not willing to learn from other faiths and cultures?
Ironically,
we talk about our diverse melting pot culture, but at the most basic levels,
we really don't understand one another. Today, more than ever, we need
to humbly acknowledge one culture, one religion, one nation, cannot possibly
provide all the answers.
Buddhist
monk and author Thich Nhat Hanh feels the only path to peace is in mindfulness,
the Buddhist practice of listening with deep compassion. "No single
tradition monopolizes the truth," Hanh asserts in "Living Buddha,
Living Christ," his perspective on the common values of Buddhism
and Christianity "We must glean the best values of all traditions
and work together to remove the tensions between traditions in order to
give peace a chance."
At an
even deeper level, perhaps we need to reconsider the power of faith. I'm
not talking about a blind faith that reduces women, breeds arrogance,
and provides a weapon for hate-mongers to hold people down. I'm talking
about a faith that rests in the goodness of humanity, not in the drone
of dogma.
It is
easy in these angry times to blame all of the world's instability on religious
extremists. But let's remember Christians first exploited the term "Holy
Wars" when they fought the bloody Crusades. Under the supposedly
benign name, Moral Majority, right-wing Christians from the Western world
promote a hideous campaign of hatred and bigotry.
Doctrine
that gets in the way of establishing a more loving planet is really the
problem.
Most
of the Scriptures have remarkable similarities, if we can simply see beyond
the dogma. The Koran delivers a fierce mandate for social justice. The
Christian Gospel commands us to love all people, not just the people who
share our religious views. The Jewish Torah promotes equality and respect.
And Buddhism promotes peaceful practices all faiths can share.
We need
to find the common threads in the vastly complex global community. Our
faith in a more peaceful and just world remains our best hope for a planet
that will not self-destruct. I'm not sure how we regain our faith and
trust and stop looking over our shoulders for terrorists. All I know is
if we stop hoping for a kinder planet, we have truly lost our humanity.
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